I think looking put-together is a skill rather than a personality trait, and like any skill it has rules you can learn.
I'm an engineer. I build AI systems for a living, and what I'm good at is making software genuinely smart about one narrow subject.
For a long time none of that helped me get dressed. Somewhere between the coffee and the door, whatever was clean and nearby went on. I assumed that was just who I was.
Then one weekend I took everything out of my closet, certain I'd end up shopping. It was full of things I loved and never wore. So I did what I do with any problem I don't understand: I treated it as a system. I photographed every piece on me, worked out what fit and which colors were actually mine, and wrote the rules down as they turned up, until every item had a job.
Once you know your rules and you know what you own, getting dressed stops being a puzzle. It feels like mastery, because it is.
Co-Closet is that afternoon, done for you, in your own closet.
Knowing exactly what to wear means you stop guessing. That's the skill I want to give you.
— Lee Mullins, Atlanta